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^ Part 1: A target

How can you distinguish a dream from an objective? A dream does not need to share, just close your eyes and sleep, a goal to be reached must be planned and need to put it to Robbins "massive action".

Often we say we have a goal, but we do nothing to achieve it, to make it happen and it would be more correct to say that I have a dream, a simple dream, one of those you wake up in the matt ina, remember them for a few minutes, then vanish into thin air, just as they came, just as they will go back again and again.
It is said that not all dreams come true ... but all that was made was first dreamed. This would seem to contradict what was said ... what? ... If you dream then the dream is to create a project .. determines a target. It
.. Of course! ... What did those people who have turned their dream into reality? It is said that Walt Disney has knocked three hundred banks before finding one that would have provided funding to build Disneyland, it is said that Edison failed ten thousand times before making the first light bulb ... .. ourselves .. before making any already achieved our dream, what have we done?
Probably each of us has taken steps, he found it difficult but did not give up the idea of \u200b\u200bfailure.

NEVER NEVER NEVER GIVE UP
Never never never give up .... If you have a dream do not let it go, if you have a dream Pursue, if you have a dream Make it.
realize a dream is not always easy, especially if the things you have to cause trouble, sometimes sacrifices.
The best way to not achieve the goal is to focus on things to do and not on the objective to be achieved.
Back back, returns to a goal that you could reach back to those days, shoot those pictures, shoot those thoughts.
what you focus on? I'm sure you thought steadily to the result, as it were living constantly achieved, you'd have to experience the thrill and nothing was too hard on the path to get there. Back
it to a goal you have missed, what you focus on? I bet on stress and fatigue that you should try to get where you wanted.
By focusing on fatigue, I bet you that the actions undertaken to achieve the goal, have been minimal, if not in fact null and that goal was missed.
also missed the target is useful if you teach something, Edison failed 9999 times before her to make the bulb, if it had focused on the feeling of defeat, the bulb was probably invented by someone else, if Disney had given up after the first Disneyland waste banks now would not have the most famous amusement park in the world.
When we focused on the objective, nothing is too hard to achieve if we focus on the effort to do to achieve it, no goal will be able to motivate us.


Plan and transform the dream into a goal.
What requirements must a dream-goal to be achieved?

1. Must be expressed in positive . The mind does not know the word "not" enough evidence to say not to think of something to see that thing in our mind clear and sharp. Imagine your mind as a navigator for the car that is your life, turn up the sail, and that with the help of the satellite determines where you are, then it's up to you to indicate the place where you want to go, when did all this You can start and follow the instructions that the browser gives you. This is because you have expressed your goal in positive, you said you want to go. Now imagine that you get off at the railway station, and after having stood in line for a taxi when you're finally over and the driver looks quizzically you tell him where you must lead, you tell them ... "I do not want to go to the Colosseum," Okay, sir ... .... Where the port? ... "I do not want to go to St. Peter ". Quell'autista you see your mind is bewildered. And if I told you ... I want to go to Piazza S. John at number 30 and I have to be there for 10 .. What would the driver? Probably watching the clock to see who has the time available, then the mental map of Rome to determine the path, using all the resources of his professionalism and the way to Piazza San John. The path is always linear and straightforward? Absolutely not! The poor driver must untangle the traffic Romano and flexibility to change course if necessary, avoid obstacles, sometimes stopping at a traffic light in the queue but if the claim is correct that took take you where you want ... maybe a few minutes later than at the time, but you will arrive at Piazza S . John. So to give an objective positively need to know what you really want, determine the starting point (current state) therefore the end point (desired state) and in the middle of the road ahead with courage, determination and flexibility.
2. must be credible. Taken by the enthusiasm of new conquests sometimes tend to exaggerate ... I say this for experience, we tend to say .. "I want lose weight 20 pounds in the next month, "perhaps it would be possible to fast completely, but our mind is smart and always tries to do us good .. never hurt, and above all unconsciously know our options. The only result would be to drop everything after a few days, because the mind is not credible that goal.

3. Must be your responsibility . Must depend only on you join, you must take the responsibility for achieving the objective. It 'all too easy to blame for not having achieved the goal to someone else or something. In an old movie starring Alberto Sordi, the main character, a roman a little boy 'layabout with a passion for cabaret to justify his lack of success in the show relies as justification .... 'Because there' I have had the disease. " Stopping to think how many times we gave the "disease" of whatever kind, to blame. E 'guilt of the disease, my mother's fault, it is the fault of the head, is the fault of their colleagues. In reality, our lives no one 'at fault but we will' have a responsibility. Accept the responsibility for achieving it means accepting the possibility of making mistakes and learning from mistakes, like Edison with his light bulb and mean also have the possibility to change the path to reach your goal as the driver of the taxi that takes you to Piazza S. Giovanni No. 30 by 10.

4. Must be defined in time . I want to achieve that on ... .... A goal should have a time limit. A dream can afford to be indefinite, so it will remain only a dream but to realize that dream must give a time limit, even to define when the goal is reached. When I started my career with the right weight for Also I gave myself a deadline for full implementation of my project, hand in hand, I gave the intermediate milestones, I have broken the major objective to be achieved in 12 months, many small fortnightly or weekly goals that allowed me to check my route and revise the strategies that apply. This allowed me to lose weight more than twenty kilograms in a year and keep the weight substantially achieved.

5. Must keep the secondary benefits . What are the secondary benefits? Starting from the knowledge that knowingly or unknowingly our mind always acts with the aim of giving us pleasure and away from pain. The condition in which we are now sure it was created because in some ways takes us away from the pain, sorrow, and meets any one of the needs which we will discuss avanti. Il nostro obiettivo, deve conservare i vantaggi secondari e spesso inconsapevoli anzi deve soddisfarli consapevolmente. Occorre quindi chiedersi coscientemente … Quali vantaggi traggo da questa condizione … come li soddisferò nella nuova condizione?

6. Deve essere ecologico . Per ecologico si intende che sia buono per te e per le persone che ti sono vicine e condividono con te la vita, nel senso che il viaggio che farai per raggiungerlo e poi l’obiettivo stesso raggiunto deve darti qualcosa di buono, soddisfazione, non deve allontanarti dagli affetti, dalla famiglia, dagli amici. Un obiettivo ecologico è quello che ti fa crescere e ti da molto accrescendo quello che già hai.

Per close this first part, take a few minutes to properly define your goals, it only takes a few minutes.

. Expressed in positive
· credible
· Under your responsibility
· Define time;
· Keep the secondary benefits;
· Ecological.


End part 1.