from dream to reality' ^ Part 6: The time to accomplish your project
Imagine a bank to fund your account, every night at midnight uro € 84,600 and that you should spend it all within 24 hours, otherwise the bank takes what is advanced. At a time when the bank clears the balance of the day before pay back € 84,600 in your account uro.
In practice, there is only one rule: every day you have to spend all the money without earning anything.
How would you spend your money? Allowing the bank to take back or would you do anything to spend every penny? 84,600
exactly are the precious seconds of a day that we all have available, and that exactly at midnight every day, expire in order to have as many available up to midnight.
In what activities we spend our time? The
nostre attività giornaliere sono divise tra urgenti e importanti; anche se a volte possono essere scambiate, sono profondamente diverse. Le attività urgenti sono legate al tempo che abbiamo per compierle, le attività importanti sono legate al valore e al cosa ci darà compierle.
Immaginiamo un bersaglio, fatto di centri concentrici e nel cui cerchio esterno ci sono le attività che non sono importanti né urgenti, ovvero quelle che definiamo una vera e propria perdita di tempo, quelle fini a se stesse, che non ci danno né ci portano a niente.
AZIONI NON URGENTI E NON IMPORTANTI
AZIONI URGENTI E NON IMPORTANTI
AZIONI URGENTI E IMPORTANTI
AZIONI IMPORTANTI
Focalizziamoci sull’ultima weeks and answer the question:
• In what activities, not important or urgent, I spent my time?
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In the next circle we can not urgent and important tasks and activities are that give us more stress, what we brought back to the last moment without finishing them, the activities we do and we do not like to do.
· Always thinking last week how much time I spent in active and non-urgent matter?
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urgent and important activities are those that give a little 'chili to life, are those that you absolutely must do and what you enjoy doing, are the ones that you procure a bit of stress but they give you something, make you grow.
· last week in which urgent and important tasks I used my time?
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Infine il centro. La parte migliore della nostra vita, le attività che facciamo con piacere, senza obbligo, le azioni che fanno bene a noi e a chi ci è vicino.
· Nell’ultima settimana quanto tempo ho trascorso nella parte centrale del bersaglio? E cosa ho fatto specificatamente?
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Having answered these questions, you know how you spent those precious 84,600 seconds of every day last week that probably will not be different from all the others that preceded it.
One more question:
From my time as a use depends on whether I can reach my goal. What will I do in the next week that will allow me to spend time in a useful way to achieve my goal and my happiness?
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Areas of our lives.
We can divide our lives into zones. The first is the area of \u200b\u200bnon-control and no influence, that is an area where we can not put away any events that happen.
We can not rectify a rainy day, the stock that goes down, traffic that prevents us from arriving on time, government policy and many other events that could ruin your day and life. The time spent in this area is a waste of time, time spent without us being able to draw any benefits.
The second is the zone of influence and not control. And 'the area in which our culture and our personality, our communication can affect the incident events.
may affect family, work environment, on people. We can influence by using our intelligence, we can rarely by force. The strength instead of closer to the people around us, makes us away, and probably the people around us will do exactly the opposite of what we expect them to do.
The third is the Control Area. What and who we can control? We can control ourselves and our behavior. We can decide to improve our lives and, by extension, the lives of those around us. We can decide to apply the things learned in reading these pages, or put them away and forget about it, we can choose to leave the area more dangerous of all ... the comfort zone.
The comfort zone is the set of habits that make us sure of ourselves and not just for the good. The comfort zone prevents us from addressing the news that we would do well in our lives, but we are afraid to face as unknown territory.
Good! Now we just have to take the first step outside the comfort zone and face the path that leads us to turn any dream into reality.
It 's easy? No, it's easy! If it were easy it would already be done but we now have more tools, we know where to go to recover our resources: we know exactly where we start and where we want to go.
We just have to wear comfortable shoes and put the backpack and start walking with his back straight and look to the future.
Along the way we become better people, learn many things and most importantly, we realize that we are more than our goal ... infinitely more.
Maybe some targets will be missed but not every goal can teach us something new. Remember 9999 "failures" Edison before he could make the bulb from each of them has learned something new, and that's why he finally realized his dream.
In the bag for our trip we have made the best of us, is the only thing we need to arrivare dove siamo diretti.
Non mi resta che augurarti che questo meraviglioso viaggio non abbia mai fine e che il tuo zaino sia sempre pieno di emozioni
Ti abbraccio
Ubaldo “ Uby“ Saltarelli.
Un ringraziamento particolare a Lorena … cara e preziosa amica che ha reso leggibili e fruibili queste pagine.
Grazie … grazie di cuore
Uby
