^ Part 2: The needs
The Motiv-action or the reasons that impel us to action. The reason for this is how the objective we want to achieve, can satisfy our needs.
often say that we happen to be lazy to do certain things but I wonder, to go see the team play football the heart would be too lazy? If tomorrow morning before dawn dovessimo incontrare la nostra donna/uomo dei sogni ma la condizione sarebbe .. Domani mattina prima dell’alba o mai più.. saremmo ancora troppo pigri per alzarci da letto , prepararci nel migliore dei modi e uscire di casa svegli e saltellanti come grilli?
Quindi, la pigrizia non esiste se quello che dobbiamo raggiungere e abbastanza motivante.
Un obiettivo è motivante quanto riesce a soddisfare determinati bisogni.
Secondo Antony Robbins, tutti gli esseri umani devo soddisfare alcuni bisogni, quattro di “ base” e due di livello superiore:
· Bisogno di Sicurezza che va a coprire la necessità mangiare, bere, la casa, il lavoro, la famiglia , insomma tutto ciò che in un modo o in un altro makes us feel safe, those things that make us feel safe.
is no need to Variety, the opposite of the need for security. The need for variety is met by uncertainty, and excitement of the unknown is to cancel the "boredom" completely safe. It 's the need for us to leave our comfort zone and makes us seek and find new people and situations. Importance
is no need to, need to be important to someone or something we do.
is no need for connection or need for love is the need that makes us look for our fellow human beings that compels us to be united to a person, to have friends, to belong to a group. All these
needs are not always met in an environmentally friendly way, meaning ecologically actions that are good for our lives and that of those close to us.
For some the need for security is met staying away from their peers, stay at home and refusing any contact with the world.
The need for variety is met by making use of some drugs, alcohol or cheating on their partner or simply going to rummage in the fridge to try "new things" to eat. In the ante-
medical practice you can clearly see how people can satisfy their need for significance by increasing the severity of their disease than the interlocutor.
Often the need for love forces us to face relationships that they only hurt us. These are just some of the ways in which we can satisfy these needs in a way harmful to us, for our lives, the lives of those close to us, yet we do it.
The first of these higher needs is the need to grow the second and contribute.
The need to grow is the need to make us better people, is the need that impels us to study, to take their exams, to confront and even to read these pages and learn how to reach your goal. It 's the need to build our lives.
The need for help is satisfied by helping others. It 's that need us to do volunteer work, to bring the bags to an old lady cross the street or to a child. E 'in a few words that need us to do good.
Now that you have made a very brief overview of human needs is the time to find out if our goal is motivating. Bearing in mind your goal
well formulated as we learned in the first part, we answer a few questions.
From the quality of the questions and answers depends on the quality of life.
security questions: • In
how to achieve my goal satisfies the need for security? • In
how to achieve my goal will make me feel safe?
• How will I feel, about la sicurezza, quando lo avrò raggiunto?
· In una scala da 1 a 10 , quanto mi sentirò sicuro?
Domande sulla varietà.
· In che modo raggiungere il mio obiettivo soddisfa il bisogno di varietà?
· In che modo raggiungere il mio obiettivo mi permetterà di conoscere cose e persone nuove?
· Da una scala da 1 a 10 , quanto sarà soddisfatto il bisogno di varietà dal mio obiettivo?
Bisogno di connessione.
· In che modo raggiungere il mio obiettivo mi farà provare e mi darà amore e connessione?
· Da una scala da 1 a 10 quanto mi sentirò di amare e di essere amato?
Bisogno di importanza. • In
how to achieve my goal will make me feel important?
• How will understand to be important? How do I see?
° on either scale of 1 to 10, how to reach my goal will make me feel important?
needs to grow. • In
how to achieve my goal I will grow? How do I become? What will I learn along the way?
° on either scale of 1 to 10, how to reach my goal will make me grow?
Need help
• In order to reach my goal that will satisfy the need to contribute?
• In what way will help?
• What specific actions will be making to improve my life and the lives of those around me?
° on either scale of 1 to 10, as will enable me to reach my goal of meeting the need to contribute?
General Question on the needs.
How can I satisfy my needs in an environmentally friendly manner, so that satisfying them is good for me and for others?
answering these questions will we know if we are to achieve the goal that is motivating or not. Meet all the needs will give us the most incredible strength and allows us to discover the truth because that pushes us to action. If it is motivating
how to reach the target is not a problem, we will be able to overcome any obstacle as if we were to get up before dawn to go to meet the woman / man of our dreams .... Before dawn.
End of second part.
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